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Cosmopolitan
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Jan 04
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Hint: Make Him Wait for Sex
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Jennifer Benjamin
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Page 92
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Dr. Gardos, along with other national experts, shares how long to wait for sex with a new partner.
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... So how long should you put him on hold? While it's really an individual decision,
a general rule of thumb is to wait four to eight dates. "Many couples have found
that holding off until at least the fourth date has led to more successful relationships,"
says Sandor Gardos, PhD, staff sexologist at www.mypleasure.com. Just promise to make it
worth his while.
Passion Perks
Building the anticipation will make the experience even more exciting for both of you.
"The sensual energy continues to grow, so by the time you finally do have sex, it's
a huge rush and release," says Gardos. And your temporary no-sex status will inspire
your erotic imagination. So your eventual action will not only be intense but inventive
as well.
Stroke His Ego
"Avoid telling your guy you're not comfortable with him yet," says Sandor
Gardos, PhD, staff sexologist at www.mypleasure.com. Instead, assure him that you'd
love to ravish his bod, but you'd rather know him better first.
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