Men are casually inquisitive too. Here, the hot topics that keep them up at night:
"A buddy told me that his girlfriend ejaculates when she orgasms. Is he pulling my leg?"
Because the fluid is expelled from the urethra upon orgasm, many researchers believe it's a stream of
urine. However, others think the mystery fluid is produced by the Skene's glands, located on either side
of a women's urethra, and may be similar in composition to male ejaculate - minus the sperm.
"What's more important in terms of penis size - length or width? How would a guy compensate?"
Because the inner two-thirds of the vagina is not as sensitive as the first third, a longer penis isn't
necessarily going to create more pleasure. In terms of width, some women prefer a thicker penis. If you're
on the slim side, try flattening out on top of her during doggie-style or try tightly squeezing her legs
between yours in missionary.
"Does it gross a woman out if a man kisses her after oral sex?"
While some women are turned off, others find it hot. To suss out your partner's ick factor, read her
body language. Work your way uptown, kissing her stomach and breasts, moving closer to her mouth. If
she turns her head as you near her lips, abandon kiss. Otherwise, go for it.
Source: Sandor Gardos, Ph.D., Sex Therapist and Founder of MyPleasure.com
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