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Cosmopolitan
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Apr 06
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Could Your Relationship Use a Vibrator?
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Lisa Chudnofsky
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Page 114
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Dr. Gardos from MyPleasure.com explains how to introduce vibrators into the relationship.
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Have the Vibrator Talk
You might fear that merely mentioning a sex toy will make your man feel inadequate or think you're some kind of kinky freak. But if
you're game to test the waters, consider this: In Berman's study, two-thirds of women said their men were cool with their carnal
accoutrements. "It sends a positive message about a woman - that she's into sex and wants it more often and more intensely," says
Sandor Gardos, Ph.D, founder of MyPleasure.com. Plus, Gardos says, many men want to get in on the battery-operated action themselves
but feel nervous about bringing it up. Even if you suspect your man would be open to the idea, you still can't just whip it out
mid-sack session - you're going to have to suss out for sure whether he'd be interested by discussing it first. Pick a moment
when you're out of the bedroom so the immediate pressure is off. Then, to avoid triggering any insecurities, start by reassuring him
that a toy is in no way a stand-in for him. "To do that, let him know how great he is in bed," says Gardos. "Go on to explain that
since the sex is already so amazing, you want to take it to the next level and experiment with playthings."
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