Q: Is the difference between good sex and bad sex the same as the difference between good and bad dancing: rhythm?
A: (...) the greater uncertainty is perhaps this: What do the words good and bad actually mean? Can anyone really say?
"I was studying for a while what that means exactly," says Sandor Gardos, sex therapist and founder of MyPleasure.com.
"Does that mean someone's objectively bad, or just bad with you? I think it's a complex answer," Gardos ruminates, still
talking. "Good sex generally means whatever your partner is doing is what you like to be doing. To someone else, that
might be horrible sex". Indeed, this new awareness could change everything we thought we think about everything we
think we like. Shit, someone needs to start testing this whole good/bad, objective/subjective theory on other things:
pie, cakes, colors, movies, cookies, and that's just to start.
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