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I recently broke up with my boyfriend who was only using me for the sex.
However, the sex was extremely good and although I would like to continue to
have sex with him I would also like to kill him. What should I do: Kill him or screw him?
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This is a pretty easy one. I generally recommend that people not kill a partner
and I usually advise people not to have sex with someone they would like
to kill!
I can certainly understand you missing the sex. It can be very hard to
temporarily give that up. However, you say that you broke up with him because
he was only using you for sex. If you continue having sex with him despite
wanting to kill him, not only would you be back to the same situation, but you
would actually be doing the very thing that you despised about him.
If you are that upset with him, I think a clean break (at least for a while) is
probably a better course of action. Use this time to become better in touch with
yourself. Reflect on what you are really looking for in a relationship. And, in
the meantime, there is always masturbation!
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Best,
Dr. Sandor Gardos
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