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I read with interest your answer about the volume of fluid in the female ejaculate. Your answer of at most two tablespoons is wrong according to my experience with several women. One woman would soak a standard size shower towel easily within just a few minutes responding to oral sex. Another has expelled fluid of nearly the same volume for a distance of over two feet from her body. Yet a third woman, who had never had an ejaculate experience before in her life, produced considerably over your "tablespoons" volume on her first ejaculatory experience.

I am certainly not one of the "expert" researchers that you may have worked with but it seems to me with your base of research information, that someone is pulling your leg on what a women's body is truly capable of, or your information has been edited before it reaches you.


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Thank you for your perspective. I take it you are referring to my recent answer stating that no woman is going to ejaculate two liters of fluid.

Let me clarify what I said. I am not saying that a woman is not capable of expelling a large amount of fluid, just that it should not properly be considered ejaculation.

Do me a favor: Open up an anatomy book and tell me where in a woman's body that amount of fluid could be coming from. What organ that can expel that amount of fluid is in any way attached to the vagina? That's right, the bladder.

Look, there is nothing wrong with expelling urine during orgasm. Many women do. Urine is usually sterile and not harmful. But there is a distinction between what is known as female ejaculation and urinating. If you insist that this wasn't urine, then you have to point out where it came from. Huge amounts of fluid don't just suddenly ooze from pores in the skin.

Really, this whole debate is entirely based on the notion that somehow ejaculate is okay and urine is not. Why not stop worrying about what it is and what it is called? If you and she (or rather, they) had a good time, that is what matters most.


Best,
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