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When I make love, I often start to laugh in the middle of my orgasm. I can't
help it. It is slightly unnerving to my boyfriend though. He has never seen
this before. Is this normal or are we doing something wrong?
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No, you are not doing anything wrong. Many women laugh or even cry during or
after orgasm. Orgasm can release tremendous emotions during this time of
enormous physical release. Orgasm is also a short period of time during which
we are often at our most vulnerable. This can lead to all sorts of feelings
rushing out. Because men are taught in our society to suppress emotions more
than women, it is less common for guys -- but it can happen nonetheless.
It is also possible that you are simply becoming enormously ticklish right
after orgasm, which is very common for both men and women. Even the slightest
touch can be downright uncomfortable due to this sensitivity.
Basically, you can reassure him by explaining that this is only occurring
because you are having such an intense orgasm. If it was a little hiccup you
barely noticed, I doubt you would be laughing your head off!
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Best,
Dr. Sandor Gardos
MyPleasure provides up-to-date and useful sexual education materials in combination
with a store that allows people to buy, try, and learn about new aspects of
sexuality. We believe everybody deserves a great sex life.
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