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My husband of eight years and I have recently began using a vibrator. Prior to this, we had wonderful sex.
After a few weeks of "good vibrations," I believe he became intimidated. He is a sturdy 6.5 inches, while
our new bedfellow is a perfect 10. It is no problem for me to insert the entire length, nor is it a problem
(with additional lubrication) to have both him and the vibrator inside.
The problem is now he feels he is too small, and though no complaints have been mentioned about my size,
he is convinced that he is not satisfying me. I have tried to explain that the vagina grows to accommodate,
as well as shrinks, but he wants a second opinion. (Head like a rock!)
Which is why we're here tonight. Slap some sense into this man so we can get back to the bedroom!
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Consider it done. Slap! Slap! Get back to the bedroom and stop worrying about this!
Your wife is correct. As I have explained before, the vagina is designed to expand and contract to fit
almost any size penis. Not to mention the fact that the inner two-thirds of the vagina have very few nerve
endings. It can be fun to play with a large dildo or vibrator, but that does not mean in any way that your
wife is not satisfied with you or your penis size. Honestly. Keep obsessing about this, though, and I
guarantee it will become a major problem. Instead, simply enjoy all the fun varieties of sex you and your
wife can have with or without a vibrator. And remember, communication is key with all relationships so keep
up all of the good conversations--however difficult they may be. There is no vibrator anywhere that can
compare to a good human lover!
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Best,
Dr. Sandor Gardos
MyPleasure provides up-to-date and useful sexual education materials in combination
with a store that allows people to buy, try, and learn about new aspects of
sexuality. We believe everybody deserves a great sex life.
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