My boyfriend and I have been going out for more than a year. I am still an intercourse virgin and I am not planning to have sexual intercourse any time soon. Do you have any ideas on how to make our oral sex life more exciting?
Thanks for such a fun question. There are several things that you can do to vary and spice up your oral sexual technique.
Try different patterns of licking, sucking, and nibbling on your partner. Similar to other sexual activities, people can get in ruts and do the same thing in the same order each time they are with their partners intimately. Simply varying your technique can spice things up. You can also try adding food to your routine. Some couples like using whipped cream or honey for example. There are flavored gels that you can buy to use during oral sex. Remember, some women with sensitive vulvas can have reactions to these substances so you may want to experiment a little at a time.
Also, using your fingers or smaller sex toys (like bullets) -- interspersed with licking and sucking, can bring more direct stimulation to the genitals. You can even try humming while giving oral sex to each other, adding a vibration feeling to the genitals.
Good luck with your investigation! For more expert advice on oral sex enhancement check out our Oral Tricks sex tips.
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