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I am a woman who has absolutely wonderful orgasm all the time from manual or
oral stimulation, but never from just intercourse. Is there something wrong
with me?
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Answer
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No, nothing is wrong with you. Only about 25 percent of women always have an
orgasm during sex, and only a minority of women are able to have orgasms
through intercourse or vaginal stimulation alone. The primary location of
sexual excitement for most women is the clitoris. Even among those women
who can have orgasms from intercourse, it is usually due to indirect
stimulation of the clitoris. Some women do have orgasms from G-Spot (or
even nipple) stimulation alone, but they are rare. Your situation is
actually the norm!
So, what do you do? First, relax -- what you are experiencing is completely
natural. Of course, you can make sure to get additional stimulation before,
during, or after intercourse -- whether manually, orally, or otherwise.
If you want to try to have an orgasm during intercourse, you can also
stimulate yourself or have your partner stimulate you simultaneously.
What is most important is that you enjoy being with your partner (which
it sounds like you do), and not try to force something to happen. Be
happy that you are able to have orgasms easily, and pursue them in
whatever way works for you!
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Best,
Dr. Sandor Gardos
MyPleasure provides up-to-date and useful sexual education materials in combination
with a store that allows people to buy, try, and learn about new aspects of
sexuality. We believe everybody deserves a great sex life.
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