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For the Men
At times it can seem like most products are made for women only -- not true!
MyPleasure carries an entire line of products for men only, everything from
potions and ticklers to erection rings, masturbators, pumps and extenders, all
of which have one thing in common: they're for men only! While some men refuse
to use these types of toys, others really love them. Again, it's really up to
you and your personal tastes. At MyPleasure, we recommend you try everything
once -- after all, you might find that male sex toys bring an exciting dimension
to your sex life -- alone or with a partner.
Pumps
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A vacuum/suction device used for drawing the blood into the penis, a penis pump
either slightly enlarges your erection or helps you achieve a more powerful one.
These toys don't have any kind of permanent lengthening effect, but the temporary
illusion can be quite exciting, both to the eye and to the touch. Also, as blood
rushing to the penis is usually a good thing, the stimulation produced by penis
pumps can be very satisfying.
While men with erectile problems have used these toys for years, most men find
the suction these toys produce -- whether it be gentle or powerful -- intensely
enjoyable. Some men use
penis pumps
to ready themselves for partner
intercourse. Others use them to achieve a strong orgasm. Another option is to
use the pump for achieving orgasm while exploring a partner with your other
hand. See? The options are numerous -- and pleasurable!
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Masturbation Sleeves
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The ultimate male pleasure toy, a masturbation sleeve is simple to use: you
insert your penis into the soft, warm masturbator and pump away. Made from a
variety of substances, masturbators can be shaped like flashlights, beer cans,
extra-large penises or realistic vaginas, and are usually internally coated with
silicone or CyberskinTM meant to simulate vaginal
walls.
While masturbation sleeves
are an ideal nightstand choice for the single man,
there's no reason why men in partnerships can't use them, too. Many couples
enjoy having a pleasure chest stocked with fun items for both partners, either
to use alone, together or side-by-side. If you've never tried a masturbator, you
might consider it. Like a dildo or vibrator for women, masturbators offer a
degree of control over your orgasm that many men find exciting and satisfying.
For more information on figuring out what masturbation sleeve has the right
fit and dimensions for you, please read our explanation in
The Ins and Outs of Masturbation Sleeve Dimensions.
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Erection Rings
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Erection rings restrict the flow of blood away from the erect penis, creating a
pleasurable feeling of tightness and pressure, prolonging erection, and sometimes delaying
ejaculation. Usually worn at the base of the penis behind the scrotum, some men
enjoy erection rings around the base of their penis only. It really depends on
size and personal preference.
You may find it easiest to put on an erection ring before your penis is erect,
but you'll want to experiment to find what works best for you. You should remove
the ring as soon as it becomes uncomfortable -- do not wear any longer than 30 minutes.
Beginners should play around with different durations, just to make sure they
don't hurt themselves. In order to avoid unpleasant snaps, snags or yanking, you
may want to trim or shave the hair in the area where you'll be wearing the strap
or ring, or use a little lubrication to grease the wheels.
Erection rings come in all sizes, materials and constructions. Here are a few of
the most popular:
- Single-strap Ring
Placed behind the scrotum and fastened
over the top of penis, this adjustable strap is usually made of leather. These
easily removed straps are perfect for beginners.
- Solid Ring
Made of sturdy plastic or metal, these solid
rings can be dangerous if you aren't experienced. Be careful. Insert your
flaccid penis through the ring, then tuck your testicles, one at a time, through
the hoop. Solid rings don't have any snaps or buckles, so the only way you're
going to get them off is by losing your erection, either through removal of
stimulus or ejaculation.
- Testicle-Spreader Place the longer strap behind the scrotum and
snap it closed on top of your penis, forming a ring. The short straps should be
hanging down, behind the scrotum. Snap each short strap to the ring, using one
hand to hold a testicle and the other to bring the strap between your testicles
to the sides of the ring.
- Testicle-Stretcher Place the longest strap behind the scrotum and
snap it closed on top of your penis. Pull your testicles to the bottom of your
scrotum and snap the widest piece of leather around the scrotum above the
testicles. Bring the thin strap between the testicles and snap it to the ball
stretcher. Adding small weights or a leash to the attached ring can increase
sensations of pressure -- it sounds extremely complicated, but some men really
enjoy these doohickeys.
- Vibrating Ring
This type of erection ring is designed to
stimulate both partners with vibration during intercourse. Usually a single-strap
erection ring made of a firmer jelly material, the ring slides onto his penis
and then usually has an attachment for a vibrating bullet. The bullet may have a
battery pack or, with more recent technology, may simply require the inserting
of the battery to work. The bullet can be worn on the top of the penis to
stimulate the woman partner's clitoris or put below the penis to stimulate his
testicles.
Do not use erection rings if you bleed easily or have a blood clotting disorder,
if you are diabetic, or if you suffer from any vascular or nerve disorder. Do
not use these toys if you are taking anticoagulants, aspirin or any other
blood-thinning medication. If you experience discomfort or any unusual body
changes -- including bruising, pain, bleeding or loss of sensation -- remove the
ring and see your doctor. Do not place over sore, swollen, or infected areas or
areas without sensation.
If your erection ring feels too loose, you can typically adjust the size by
cutting a portion of the ring near the clasp off. Please email us at
questions@MyPleasure.com
if you need information on whether a specific erection ring has this feature.
If you cannot get your erection ring off, please use scissors to remove the ring.
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Potions
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No, we don't mean the love potions stirred up in a witch's cauldron -- although
some of these products can work so well that many men think they're magic! This
category of male sexual enhancers is a loose collection of
powders, creams and herbal stimulants
that work in a similar fashion: they increase a man's
physical and mental capacity for sex.
Creams and powders, when applied directly to a man's penis, can increase the
flow of blood to his organ, causing a potentially longer, stronger and more
powerful erection. Herbal supplements can achieve the same physical effects, and
can also heighten your libido, causing you to desire sex more frequently.
While thousands of men swear by these types of products, it's important to
remember that the effects are different based on your individual physiology.
Don't expect miracles, but if you use the products as directed, they can have a
beneficial effect on your sex life.
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Ticklers
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The French Tickler
features as prominently in adolescent sexual mythology
as Spanish Fly, with one noticeable difference: Spanish Fly is imaginary and
ticklers are real products. While not the "tongue" on the tip of a condom, as
French Ticklers are often described, ticklers are nevertheless fun toys for men
to use during intercourse.
Made of a stretchy substance such as
latex, rubber or jelly,
ticklers fit over the shaft of the penis and are usually covered with a tactile
feature that increases stimulation for the wearer's partner. For example, a
typical tickler might be a rubber sheath about two inches long that is covered
with shallow rubber knobs. Another might be a short, pineapple-shaped sleeve
with rubber "fronds" to excite both the wearer and his partner.
While some men complain about the friction, many men swear that both they and
their partners swoon with delight over this intercourse-enhancer. If you feel
the sleeve rubbing a little too much, try using some lubrication for a slicker
time.
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Extenders
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Also known as a PPA, this hollow, penis-shaped dildo fits over your own penis.
You can use these to increase the length or width of your penis, to sustain or
simulate an erection, or just because you feel like having a different penis for
the day.
Men with erectile dysfunction love
extenders,
which help them simulate the
thrusting that accompanies traditional intercourse. But don't think that other
men can't use them too, even men who are more than satisfied with the length and
girth of their members. Using a sex toy is all about trying new things!
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