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Sexual Lubrication
Lubricants
and oils aren't just for partner sex. Slicking up solo sex is
one of the most common uses for lubricants, oils and lotions. Using lube during
masturbation is safe, sensual and practical: you want your sex toys to slip and
slide as much as possible. Just remember to make sure you're using a type of
lube that's compatible with the toy you're using -- you don't want to damage
yourself or your toys!
While an abundance of lubes are available in different colors, textures and
flavors, lubricants come in four basic forms, and are intended for internal and
external application to the vulva (vagina, clitoris, labia), anus, penis and testicles,
as well as all over body massage.
Petroleum-Based Lubricant
Made from petroleum jelly, mineral oil or petrolatum, petroleum-based
lubes are the most commonly used type of lubrication. Different types
include Vaseline products and baby oil. As petroleum-based lubes destroy
latex -- practically on contact -- they should never be used with
condoms, diaphragms or cervical caps. Petroleum-based lubes stain fabric
and can be difficult to wash out. Also, petroleum-based lubes tend to
irritate the vagina, so they're not really the best option for women
wanting to enjoy vaginal penetration. Petroleum-based lubes are great,
however, for male masturbation and anal play.
See an example of a petroleum-based lube!
Water-Based Lubricant
Water-based lubricants typically contain de-ionized water, glycerin, propylene
glycol and nontoxic preservatives. Although available in both
flavored
and unflavored mixtures, most unflavored lubes still taste slightly sweet.
Water-based lubes do not stain, are safe for use with latex and all other
barrier birth control methods, and rarely cause irritation. While they often dry
out during extended sex, water-based lubes are quickly revived with a spritz of
water or a dollop of saliva. Because of their versatility and effectiveness,
water-based lubes are recommended most often by sex therapists
and experienced couples.
See an example of a water-based lube!
Silicone-Based Lubricant
Silicone-based lubricants are similar to water-based lubes with one notable
difference: because they are silicone based, they are completely waterproof,
making them ideal for underwater use. They also retain their lubricating
properties better and longer than water-based lubricants, and are highly
concentrated -- so a little goes a long way! Silicone will not harm latex as
oil-based lubricants will do; however, silicone-based lubricants can harm sex
toys made from silicone, so use a different lube when using your more expensive
toys.
See an example of a silicone-based lube!
Oil-Based Lubricant
Usually made from natural products, such as vegetable oils and nut oils,
oil-based lubes tend to stain fabrics and can be difficult to wash off, but they
are safe for use with the vagina. Oil-based lubes also destroy latex, so, like
petroleum-based lubes, they should never be used with condoms, diaphragms or
cervical caps. Oil-based lubricants are great for anal sex, vaginal intercourse,
and male and female masturbation.
Whether you decide to try petroleum-, oil-, water- or silicone-based lubricants,
remember the various restrictions that go along with each. Try a few different
kinds with your lover so the two of you can experiment with different flavors,
consistencies and textures. If you don't find a lube you like right away, don't
panic: there are about a zillion different kinds out there.
For more detailed instructions and tips on using lubricant with your sex
toys, please read our article,
Lubricant -- How Do I Use It with Sex Toys?
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