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A Blueprint for Having a
Racy Couples-Only Christmas
by Jocelyn Saurini

This year, thousands of couples will take the long trek home to spend Christmas day with the family. While the winter holidays are a wonderful time to visit your relatives, not everyone joins the traveling masses. Some of you may be spending Christmas with just one special someone. If this is the case for you, we suggest you give yourself and your lover the best Christmas present ever by making the holiday entirely about the two of you. To make doing this easier, we've created the perfect list of ways to spend the day, from the moment Christmas starts until you fall into each other's arms at the end of a sensual and fulfilling holiday.

12:00AM:  Be Naughty & Steal Santa's Cookies
Eat Santa's cookies in bed and bring along with some festive Cinnamon Flavored Warming Lube!

8:00AM   Wake Up With Excitement
Start your day off by swapping oral pleasures with a holiday minty taste!

9:00AM   Breakfast in Bed
Don't rush out of bed! Have breakfast in bed with fruits and aphrodisiacs!

10:00AM   Open the Stockings
Fill the stockings with discreet sensual toys and tasty massage oils.

10:30AM   Try Out Some of Those Stocking Stuffers!
Don't wait until later! Try out your sensual stocking stuffers.

11:00AM   Open the Presents
Make sure you have lots of erotic gifts under the tree for your lover.

12:00PM   Eat a Late Lunch Picnic Style in Front of the Tree
Full of aphrodisiacs and possibly even some dirty talk!

1:00PM   Snuggle Up for a Nap
Take a break and snuggle up for a nap and some passionate kissing!

2:00PM   Spend the Afternoon Playing a Game
Pick a sensual board game or sexy card game to play.

4:00PM   Spoil Your Dinner!
'Tis the season to indulge. Try some Chocolate Body Frosting as an appetizer.

5:00PM   Give Each Other a Massage
Share sensual massages complete with oils, balms and feather ticklers.

6:00PM   Candlelight Christmas Dinner

7:00PM   Snuggle Up for a Movie
Light the tree and snuggle up to watch a romantic holiday movie.

9:00PM   Nightcaps and Even More Presents
Finish the evening with a champagne toast and one more racy present.

9:30PM   Last of the Mistletoe
Make sure you get one more sensual kiss under the mistletoe.

10:00PM   Share a Sensual Bath
A bath for two with aromatic bath products and waterproof toys.

11:00PM   Give Each Other the Ultimate Thank You
End the day in bed together doing whatever makes you feel intimate!

Full Details

12:00AM - Be Naughty & Steal Santa's Cookies
You're not fooling anybody. We know that you spent Christmas Eve staring at your beautiful tree, sipping cocoa and snuggling contentedly. But now it's midnight and it's officially Christmas. Santa's already finished his list, so now it's okay for you to be naughty. Start by stealing the cookies and milk you left out for the big guy, and then get really naughty by starting the holiday out with a little romp in the bedroom. You may even want to continue indulging your sweet tooth by using a flavored lubricant or some warming massage oils.

8:00AM - Wake Up With Excitement
It's Christmas day, and you have every reason to be excited! Wake your partner up with a wonderful gift - oral pleasures! Give them an early gift by introducing them to some festive Cinnamon Warming Lube as you pull them away from their holiday dreams and into your real life holiday fantasy. For some tips and tricks on making oral sex even better, consider reading up on performing fellatio or cunnilingus.

9:00AM - Breakfast in Bed
Don't make your partner get out of bed yet! They have all day to lounge around the house, and since they'll be treating you to many special things, treat them to a holiday breakfast in bed. Keep it simple so you don't have to spend all morning cooking breakfast in the kitchen. We'd recommend a breakfast of fruits with whipped creams and chocolates to dip them in (you may want to consider fruits that are known aphrodisiacs and an assortment of pastries that you can actually buy the day before. You can even make breakfast in bed more romantic by making it a candlelight breakfast.

10:00AM - Open the Stockings
Now that you're fed and relaxed, rush on downstairs and take turns finding out what naughty and nice treats got left in your stockings! If your lover wanted to ensure a sensual holiday, then hopefully he or she filled your stocking with tiny erotic treats from MyPleasure's Holiday Stocking Stuffers list. As you pull the items out of your stocking, tantalize your lover by telling them how you plan to use the item later in the day!

10:30AM - Try Out Some of Those Stocking Stuffers!
Why wait to try out your new, sexy stocking stuffers? Pick out the items from your stockings that you most want to try and have a make-out break right there! Whether you pick something more romantic like massage oil or a tickler, or you go with a wilder vibrating bullet or vibrating erection ring, the excitement of getting your new toys is sure to spill over into a perfect mid-morning play time.

11:00AM - Open the Presents
Don't stop with the stockings! It's time to move on to the presents. Make present opening time even more enticing by mixing and matching practical, sentimental and sexy gifts. While it's up to you to find the practical and sentimental gifts that will delight your partner, MyPleasure has made finding the sexy and spicy gifts easy with gift suggestion lists for him and for her. Open your presents with complete abandon -- throw the paper all over the room and treat each other right. If you've got any energy left over, try out some of your new items on the spot!

12:00PM - Snuggle Up for a Nap
By now you've had a busy morning. Put the tree lights on, curl up under some thick, heavy blankets and take a little nap. Of course, nothing is nicer than falling asleep with your arms around each other and some deep, passionate kisses -- and MyPleasure has tips on being a perfect kisser, too!

1:00PM - Eat a Late Lunch Picnic Style in Front of the Tree
Again, the trick here is to stay away from food you'll have to spend all day cooking. Prepare the picnic lunch the day before. You might want to get some gourmet cheeses, some grapes, fresh chocolate and (if you're twenty-one!) a nice bottle of wine. Go full picnic style and spread a blanket out in front of your Christmas tree or fireplace. Make sure if you can you include some aphrodisiacs in your picnic lunch! And don't all picnics end with making out?

2:00PM - Spend the Afternoon Playing a Game
No, we don't mean Monopoly or Scrabble! Spend your afternoon playing a sensual, sexy game like Nookii or The Kama Sutra Game. You may even want to create some games of your own! Any of these spicy games will fill your afternoon with sexual delights and fun, new erotic endeavors you've never thought to try before. The best part of these games is there's no arguing on Christmas because everybody wins!

4:00PM - Have Cookies Before Dinner!
Be really, really naughty and eat dessert first! Have some cookies before it's time for dinner, or be even more racy and indulge in some chocolate body frosting with each other. It's Christmas, you can have sweets whenever you want!

5:00PM - Give Each Other a Massage
Not a back rub, mind you, but a full out sensual massage. To make this perfect, read up on our tips on giving sensual massages and make sure you have all the erotic, aromatic massage products you could need. Then spend an hour rubbing each other down the right way, all the way. Take turns, or one of you can make giving the massage a gift to the other one. Either way, you'll both love the intimacy, romance and sensuality of a late afternoon sensual massage.

6:00PM - Candlelight Christmas Dinner
It's time for Christmas dinner, and this one should be romantic. Try adding a few more aphrodisiacs to the menu, and serve your meal in nothing but candlelight with romantic music in the background. If you live in a major urban city, you may even want to consider ordering take-out so you don't have to cook. Otherwise, stick to foods that won't get you sweaty and messy in the kitchen (we'll save sweaty and messy for other endeavors!). Play footsies under the table and flirt over dinner. The food won't be the only thing that's delicious; the chemistry between the two of you will be, too!

7:00PM - Snuggle Up for a Movie
After a long day, snuggle back up on the couch and watch a movie together. You may want to watch something seasonal, something romantic, or even go wild and watch something a little more "adult" in nature. Either way, stay close to each other and enjoy winding down the day.

9:00PM - Nightcaps and Even More Presents
As Christmas slips away, toast each other with a nightcap or bottle of champagne. Then surprise your partner with one last sexy gift for the two of you to share and take to bed with you that night. Consider a smaller vibrator, vibrating erection ring, lubricant or other toys for sharing. Even though it's only nine o'clock, a sexy holiday gift for the bedroom will put you in the mood to move upstairs.

9:30PM - Last of the Mistletoe
Before you head to the bedroom, though, remember that, unfortunately, the mistletoe will have to come down tomorrow, so make sure you take one more stop beneath it for a final, passionate holiday kiss. If you're feeling frisky, you may even want to try sliding in one of our other top ten places to kiss in winter before Christmas day, too.

10:00PM - Share a Sensual Bath
It's time to wash off the pine needles and other remnants of the day! But don't just take a quick shower. Indulge in a sensual bath, alone or with your partner, full of sexy waterproof toys and fragrant bath products. Take time to relax, unwind and get in the mood. Light some candles, turn on some music and drift away as bedtime approaches.

11:00PM - Give Each Other the Ultimate Thank You
As you climb into bed at the end of your perfect, shared Christmas day, you may want to end on a frisky note with one of your new toys or gifts. Or you may have tired yourself out and just want to put your arms around your partner and drift off to sleep. Turn off the tree lights and ends your Christmas day whichever way you want!

And Don't Forget…
No matter how you spend your Christmas, getting ready for it and planning to make it the most romantic Christmas ever is key! Here are some quick things to remember or try out.

Print this List and Surprise Your Lover: Get your lover involved in planning and being excited about spending the holiday together! Print (or just email) this list to your partner so you can both go out and find the perfect gifts, food and other holiday must-haves to make this a perfect couple's Christmas.

Take a Trip: If staying home together in your house or apartment just isn't appealing to you (maybe you have loud traffic outside or the two of you just need a break from your environment), consider taking a trip (complete with all the items from our sensual packing list). Whether your budget is endless or limited, there's always somewhere you can go for a day or two to just get away from it all!

If You Have Children: If you have young ones in the house, chances are you won't have too much time for romance this holiday, but be sure to schedule a moment for just you and your partner. Whether it's late at night under the mistletoe after the children are in bed or early in the morning in front of the tree before they wake up, celebrate your relationship as well as your family. You can even secretly leave a sexy gift for your partner under their pillow for them to find later.

Plan in Advance: Don't wait until the last minute to plan your romantic, sexy Christmas. Make sure you get everything you'll need for the day and get any cooking out of the way early so you can spend the entire day sharing special moments with your partner. You don't want to end up with gifts that don't arrive on time or not enough food in the house on the big day!

Finding Sexy Gifts: Is so simple! Just browse MyPleasure's store for the perfect sensual holiday gifts!

So there you have it. While big turkey dinners and huge family gatherings are wonderful, spending the day together is a truly special experience and a wonderful way to celebrate the holiday. Make this holiday special and sexy -- with just the two of you!
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