Sex Toys for Men, Women and Couples

1. Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or your partner)?

• Are you a first-time anal explorer? Then you definitely want something small, smooth and probably non-vibrating. Also, be sure it has a flanged safety base or a long enough handle to ensure a no-slip grip.
• Have you used anal toys before and now want a different sensation? Try anal beads or a dual-action strap-on vibrator for hands-free use.
• Want a toy for use with a partner? Try something harness-compatible.
• Do you want to explore prostate stimulation? Look for a toy with a pronounced curve at the end. Many G-Spot toys may be used for this purpose, but make sure they're long enough to hang onto and that they have a safety base before you use them anally!

• Do you want something that's more pliable? Then you definitely want something made of silicone, jelly or a realistic material.
• Are you more interested in different shapes and specific spot stimulation? An acrylic or glass dildo may be good for you. Available in a variety of size and shapes, these toys can also be heated or chilled for very different sensations.
• Is something that most resembles a penis what you really crave? Look for traditional or lifelike toys. Many are actually molded from the real thing!

• Are you just beginning to experiment with anal toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a small, smooth dildo or graduated anal beads that allow you to start with the smallest bead and work your way up.
• Have you had some experience with anal toys and want something a little larger, or maybe with some texture? Look into harness toys or anal plugs, as they often come in a variety of sizes, many with veining detail or pleasure nubs. Some anal plugs also expand to any size you choose.
• Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? There are many anal vibrators and beads that are longer than average. Again, be sure that these have some sort of safety base or handle and that you check the length. What may be average for some people may not be the same for you!

• Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and vibe's box should say what size is needed.
• Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. As the anus does not produce any natural lubrication, it is especially important you use lubricant for anal toys. You may also want to look for something with a desensitizing agent or a thicker, water-based lubricant. Read more about why and how to use lubricant here!
• Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
• The MyPleasure Customer Service email or phone number in case you have questions!

What's your most advanced anal toy?
We definitely think the Power Wand is our strongest and most powerful anal toy.

How big of an anal toy is safe to use?
For more information on safer anal play with all sizes, please read our article Introducing Anal Sex.

Should I use lubricant with my anal toy?
Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for manual masturbation and intercourse.

What type of lubricant is best for anal sex?
The best type of lubricant for anal sex is a thicker, creamier, water-based lubricant. Though petroleum-base lubricants will also be smooth, they are not condom safe. We recommend Liquid Silk. If you are not concerned about using your lubricant with a condom, you may want to consider Anal Eze, which also has a light touch of desensitizer for more comfortable entry.

Why aren't all vibrators and dildos good for anal use? Can I use a bullet anally?
For anal use, we recommend using only vibrators and dildos with flared safety bases, such as those shown in our Anal Vibrators and Anal Dildos departments. Using any other toy, such as a vibrating bullet, poses the risk of getting lost.

Will using an anal toy cause damage to my rectum?
It sounds like you might be worried about "stretching," and if that's the case, read Dr. Gardos' answer on that subject.

What is the prostate, and how do I find it?
For complete information on finding and stimulating the male prostate, please read our article, Understanding the Prostate: The Male G-Spot.