Definition How-To-Select Frequent Questions Suggested Buys

Definition of Clitoral Stimulator

Clitoral Stimulator - A device designed specifically to excite the clitoris. Can be found in a number of forms, such as a strap-on stimulator (generally shaped like a butterfly or cute object, where the body nestles in the labia and the antennae or "nose" vibrates against the clitoris), a pocket rocket (any small, hand-held vibrator that is non-phallic, non-insertable and has massaging nodules on the head) or vibrating bullet (a slim plastic or metal vibrator that is missile-shaped and attached by a cord to a battery pack). Also refers to any protrusion on a vibrator or erection ring that is located near the base where it can vibrate or rub against the clitoris.

How To Select a Clitoral Stimulator

We know how overwhelming selecting a clitoral stimulator can be. Fortunately, if you answer three questions, it's easy

1. Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or her)?

• Are you looking for something that leaves your hands free? Then a strap-on stimulator is great. You may also be interested in panties or G-Strings with vibrating bullets. If you're playing with a partner, look at remote-controlled offerings.
• Do you want to control every iota of your stimulation? Then a hand-held vibrator will be your best friend. From vibrating bullets to pocket rockets to mini-vibes, there's an array of sizes, shapes and intensities, so you can find your perfect toy.
• Something for use with a partner? You want a vibrating erection ring with a bullet to position in just the right spot. Also look at micro-bullets for use in conjunction with oral play, as well as fingertip massagers to rev-up manual stimulation.
• Do you prefer vaginal as well as clitoral stimulation? What you need is a dual-action vibrator or a strap-on with a vaginal insert for the best of both worlds.

2. Materials: What do you want this toy to feel like?

• Do you want something softer, with more diffuse vibration? Then you want a stimulator made of jelly, rubber or silicone. Most strap-ons are made of one of these materials.
• Have you been looking for a clitoral toy that you can use in the water? Then a waterproof toy is best. Some wireless bullets and pocket rockets have rubber-sealed battery compartments, making them appropriate for water use.
• Do you prefer something that transmits a stronger vibration? Generally something made of plastic or metal (slimlines, pocket rockets, vibrating bullets) will have the strongest vibration, but can also numb. To avoid this, look for toys with a pulsatronic controller. Many rigid vibes come with soft sleeves, which may diffuse vibration slightly, but be more comfortable.

3. Size: Do you want something more discreet or is performance the most important issue?

• Are you looking for something that's easy to travel with? Then a pocket rocket is your best bet. Not only are these small and cordless, but most look fairly innocent, so accidental exposure won't make for embarrassing moments.
• Do you want something tiny that packs a big punch? Look into vibrating bullets and micro-bullets. Not only do these transmit vibrations extremely well, but many have pulsatronic controllers to stave off numbness.
• Is comfort most important to you? Definitely think about wearable stimulators; all come in a variety of sizes and levels of discreetness.

Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories

Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:

• Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
• Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. There are many different kinds at many different prices. Read about why and how to use lubricant here!
• Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
• The MyPleasure Customer Service email or phone number in case you have questions!

Now that you've found a toy that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!

First Time Buyer Suggestions for Clitoral Stimulator

See our complete line of Clitoral Stimulators, Hands-Free Clitoral Stimulators and Dual Action Vibrators!

Water Dancer A classic pocket rocket!

Fukuoku 9000 Our most gentle clitoral stimulator for first time users.

Her Pleasure Soft jelly fingertip vibe for great clitoral stimulation.

Frequently Asked Questions about Clitoral Stimulator

Will she really orgasm more with a clitoral stimulator?
While orgasms will vary from woman to woman, most women do reach orgasm most easily through direct clitoral stimulation.

What's the best clitoral stimulator for intense stimulation?
For powerful clitoral stimulation, we recommend the Perfect Platinum. Also, any vibrating bullet is great for clitoral stimulation.

What's your most gentle clitoral stimulator?
For entirely gentle vibrations for those just starting to experiment with clitoral vibration, we'd recommend the Her Pleasure Vibrating Finger Massager.

Should I use lubricant with my clitoral stimulator?
Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for manual masturbation and intercourse.

What type of lubricant should I use?
That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

Can I use my clitoral stimulator during intercourse?
Some smaller clitoral stimulators work well during intercourse. We'd recommend the Access for this, but just about anything from our Hands-Free Clitoral Stimulators Department should work just fine!

What about something that offers direct clitoral stimulation while I'm pleasuring her orally?
We'd recommend the Red Zinger micro bullet. It's powerful, and it's tiny enough to position with your tongue!

Will my clitoral stimulator be noisy?
It all depends on the vibrator you buy and your definition of noisy! For more information, please read our Bulletin From the Bedroom, Oh No! My Vibrator is Too Loud.

Are remote-controlled clitoral stimulators any good?
Absolutely! For more information, please refer to the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys or the Bulletin from the Bedroom, Hands-Free Fun!

For specific questions, please email us at questions@mypleasure.com or visit the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys