Sex Toys for Men, Women and Couples

1. Do you want something to use to liven up your sex life?

• Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? The best thing would be a vibrating erection ring, but a harness is also an option for couples who want to role-play.
• Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then Her Pleasure or a Red Zinger would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues.
• Something for use in public? Then you definitely want something that's remote-controlled. Remote-controlled panties or an insertable remote egg will make a night out extremely memorable. Just be sure there's plenty of background noise!
• Have you both wanted to explore alternative kicks? Try any sort of light bondage gear such as blindfolds, fabric cuffs and ropes. Or investigate disciplinary tools such as slappers and paddles.

• Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with scented bubbles and maybe a vibrating sponge to cleanse and massage daily stress away.
• Would you like to connect physically with your sweetie in a way other than intercourse? A sensual massage is a wonderful way to do this. Use scented lotions or warming oils and maybe up the ante by using something edible as well.
• Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty!

• Are you looking for something that is more subtle than a how-to book? Our couple's games range from simple, scratch card formats to sensual card games to more complex board games that challenge both of you to be more open and loving with each other.
• Would you rather have something more descriptive that may be referred to in the future? Look into instructional videos and manuals that you can keep handy. Videos generally focus on the sexual side of things, but may also help couples to express themselves more verbally.

• Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
• Lubricant. Read about why and how to use lubricant here!
• Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
• The MyPleasure Customer Service email or phone number in case you have questions!

Can I use a sex toy on my girlfriend or wife? If I do, will she not want to have sex with me any more?
Sex toys are great to use in partner play, and you can find more information on introducing a toy into your foreplay in our article, Introducing Sex Toys to Your Relationship. As long as you're attentive and loving to your partner, a vibrator will never replace the intimacy of lovemaking. You have nothing to worry about!

Do normal couples use sex toys?
Absolutely! Read Dr. Gardos' answer to this very question.

What's a good toy for us to start out with?
It really depends on what you're looking for, what you like and so many more factors! We'd really recommend you start by using our Personal Assistants or Gift Selector to help guide you to a more personalized product selection.

Should we use lubricant with our toys?
Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for manual masturbation and intercourse.

What type of lubricant should I use?
That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

What is a French tickler?
Read Dr. Gardos' explanation of French ticklers.