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1. Do you want something to use to liven up your sex life?

• Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? The most obvious choice would be a harness, but a strap-on clitoral stimulator for clitoral stimulation while she's being pleasured elsewhere is also an option.

• Looking for a toy you can both use at once? A double-ended dildo is perfect for shared satisfaction, but almost any vibrator can also be adapted for shared use.

• Vibrators, dildos and nipple stimulators are great for solo play, but it's also erotic to watch your partner use her toys, or for you to use toys on her!
• Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then a fingertip massager or a micro-bullet would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues.

• Something for use in public? Then you definitely want something that's remote-controlled.
• Vibrating panties or an insertable remote egg will make a night out extremely memorable. Just be sure there's plenty of background noise!

• Have you both wanted to explore alternative kicks? Try any sort of light bondage gear such as blindfolds, fabric cuffs and restraints. Or investigate disciplinary tools such as slappers and paddles.

• • Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with scented bubbles to cleanse and massage daily stress away.
  • Would you like to connect physically with your sweetie in a way other than intercourse? A sensual massage is a wonderful way to do this. Use scented lotions or massage candles and maybe up the ante by using something edible as well.
  • Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts, and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty
  
  3. Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories
  Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:
  
  • Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
  • Lubricant. Read about why and how to use lubricant here!
  • Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
  • The MyPleasure Customer Service email in case you have questions!
  Now that you've found something that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!

Should we use lubricant with our toys?

Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for all forms of sex play.

What type of lubricant should I use?
That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

What type of sex toy is best for G-Spot stimulation?
Any type of sex toy with a curvature at the end can be used to stimulate a woman's G-Spot, including both dildos and vibrators. Many women also report that G-Spot toys made of a more sturdy material such as smooth, hard plastic, glass, acrylic, or steel yield better results for direct stimulation of the G-Spot. Read our G-Spot Toy Guide for more information.

Can I use any dildo in a harness?
Dildos with wider, flared bases are often usable with a harness, but if you want to be sure, you should stick to products from our Strap On Harnesses and Dildos collection.

What's the best clitoral stimulator for intense stimulation?
For really powerful clitoral stimulation we recommend strong bullet vibes and wand vibrators.

What about something that offers direct clitoral stimulation while I'm pleasuring her orally?
We'd recommend the Le Réve 3-Speed Bullet micro bullet because it's small size makes it easy to manipulate with tongue or hands.