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Vibrator Guide from My Pleasure.com

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Vibrator - The name for any variety of battery- or electrically-powered devices used for sexual gratification. The traditional vibrator is a long, slim, smooth cylinder (called a slimline), usually made of plastic, powered by batteries in the base of the vibe. There are also dual-action vibrators, which consist of a shaft, generally phallic-shaped, that may rotate in different directions, vibrate, have gyrating beads or "pearls," be texturized or all of the above; they also have a clitoral stimulator attached at the base of the shaft which may be any variety of animal (rabbits and Rechargeable Beaded Dolphin being popular), insect or even another body part. Most have separate controls for each action, though these may be found on either the base of the vibe or be attached by a cord or wire to a handpack where the batteries are inserted. There are strap-on vibrators that are worn via a g-string panty or elastic leg and waist straps; these can be remote-controlled or wireless as well as controlled by a handpack. There are also vibrating bullets, pocket rockets, G-Spot vibrators and anal vibrators (see definitions for Clitoral Stimulator, G-Spot Toy and Anal Toy). All varieties of vibrators are made from a wide spectrum of materials, in all price ranges, colors and sizes.

1. Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or your partner)?

2. Materials: What do you want this toy to feel like?

  • Do you want something that feels as much like skin as possible? Then you definitely want something made of silicone, CyberskinTM, Futurotic or Soft Touch materials; these materials are pricier than plastic, jelly or rubber, but feel uncannily realistic.
  • Are you looking for something that feels realistic, but is more affordable? Most vibrators made of jelly or rubber will warm to your body temperature and feel more lifelike.
  • Would you prefer a toy that you can use in the water? Then any vibe that is waterproof is the best for you; check by looking for a rubber O-ring at the opening to the battery compartment.
  • Do you prefer something rigid that transmits the strongest vibration possible? A traditional slimline vibe, generally made of hard plastic and without bells or whistles, is what you're looking for. Collections often include a slimline, as well as sleeves made of softer materials such as silicone or jelly.

3. Size: Do you want smaller than average, average or fantasy-sized?

  • Are you just beginning to experiment with toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a smaller vibrator.
  • Do you want something of an average size that won't be as intimidating to bring into your intimate relationship? You should look at the dimensions of the vibrator. If they're not listed in the description, contact customer service and ask; don't just go by a picture. If a toy is uncomfortable or too small to satisfy, then you'll be frustrated and unhappy.
  • Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? Look for anything that has words describing magnitude in the name, such as "titan". Again, though, be sure to look at the dimensions so that you're not disappointed.
Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories
Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:
  • Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
  • Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. There are many different kinds at many different prices. Read about why and how to use lubricant here!
  • Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean, which can be found in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys.
  • The MyPleasure Customer Service email or phone number in case you have questions!
Now that you've found a toy that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!

See our complete collection of vibrators in our Vibrator Store to find the perfect vibrator for you!

Heart's Desire Heart's Desire
A classic slimline with a pulsatronic twist!
Passion Lily Passion Lily
As beautiful as a flower and much more exciting
Aqua Arouser waterproof vibe Aqua Arouser
The perfect size and color and it's waterproof.

Will my vibrator be noisy?
It all depends on the vibrator you buy and your definition of noisy! For more information, please read our Bulletin From the Bedroom, Oh No! My Vibrator is Too Loud.

Will my vibrator be noisy?
It all depends on the vibrator you buy and your definition of noisy! For more information, please read our Bulletin From the Bedroom, Oh No! My Vibrator is Too Loud.

How long will my vibrator last?
The lifespan of a vibrator can be unpredictable, though generally it's true that the more money you spend, the more likely you are to have a vibrator that lasts. You can read more about this topic in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys, in the vibrators section.

Will I have an orgasm the first time I use my vibrator?
This really depends on many factors, including physical arousal and your mental state of being. For more detailed information, please read Jocelyn's Bulletin from the Bedroom, The Myth of the Vibrator Miracle.

Can I use a vibrator on my girlfriend or wife? If I do, will she not want to have sex with me any more?
Vibrators are great to use in partner play, and you can find more information on introducing a vibrator into your foreplay in our article, Introducing Sex Toys to Your Relationship. As long as you're attentive and loving to your partner, a vibrator will never replace the intimacy of lovemaking. You have nothing to worry about!

What vibrator is best for clitoral stimulation?
For powerful clitoral stimulation, we recommend the Perfect Platinum. For those just beginning to experiment who want gentler clitoral stimulation, we recommend the Fukuoku 9000. Also, any vibrating bullet is great for clitoral stimulation.

What vibrator is best for a beginner?
Since this depends somewhat on personal taste, we've compiled a whole list of beginner vaginal toy suggestions.

What is your strongest vibrator?
Hands down, our strongest vibrator is the Hitachi Magic Wand.

What is your best-selling vibrator?
The Jack Rabbit is by far our best-selling vibrator and has been for quite some time. For more bestsellers, look in our Best Sellers department or read Jocelyn's Bulletin from the Bedroom on classic sex toys.

Why aren't there any larger vibrators?
We do offer a number of larger vibrators, such as the Titan. However, we've found that many people underestimate how large a vibrator with a diameter of 1-3/4" is -- that's larger than the average male penis, so be careful when you start thinking you need even more girth on your vibrator!

How strong will my vibrator be?
It really depends on the vibrator you select. You can find more information in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys vibrator section.

What material should I choose?
It entirely depends on what is important to you! You can find more information in the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys. For information on premium silicone, please read our article, Silicone: High Tech and Highly Pleasurable.

Should I use lubricant with my vibrator?
Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for manual masturbation and intercourse.

What type of lubricant should I use?
That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

What's the difference between a vibrator and a dildo?
A vibrator goes buzz! Read Dr. Gardos' answer to this very question!

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For specific questions, please email us at questions@mypleasure.com or visit the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys

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